What is “In My Student Era”?

By Kaila O’Connor, Founder of KMO HAUS

“In My Student Era” is where I (Kaila) document what I’m actively learning—while I’m still in it.

Not after the fact.
Not once it’s polished.
Not once it’s packaged into a framework.

But in real time—while I’m testing, questioning, unlearning, and rebuilding how this industry actually works.

Why “Student Era”

Because staying a student is the strategy.

The people who win in this industry aren’t the ones who “know the most”—
they’re the ones who are willing to:

  • unlearn quickly

  • test constantly

  • and stay close to what’s changing

This Substack is my commitment to that.

Who this is for

  • Founders scaling DTC brands through affiliate + PR

  • PR professionals who know the old playbook isn’t enough anymore

  • Operators who want to understand where media, commerce, and AI are heading

  • Anyone rethinking how they work—not just what they do

More about this

This is a working notebook for the affiliate marketing and PR era we’re in now—not the one we were trained for.

Inside this Substack, I break down:

  • What’s actually working right now

  • How to adapt your strategy as platforms and incentives shift

  • The behind-the-scenes thinking I use at KMO

  • The questions I’m asking (and re-asking) as the industry evolves

This is not theory.
It’s active iteration.

A perspective shift.

Because after 15+ years in PR and 6+ years combining PR with affiliate marketing, I don’t believe the problem is just strategy - it’s ALSO how we’ve been taught to think about work entirely. How you think affects how you feel, and how you feel at work matters.

So alongside tactical insights, you’ll find:

  • Thoughts on burnout, capacity, and sustainability

  • Human Design as a lens for building better work

  • Redefining success beyond output and constant optimization

  • What it looks like to build a business that feels aligned—not just performs


Final note

This isn’t a highlight reel.

It’s the middle.

And if you’re also in a season of building, evolving, or rethinking how you work—you’ll feel at home here.

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In an industry that's always changing and evolving, Kaila O'Connor, founder of affiliate PR growth agency KMO, shares her ongoing learnings in the affiliate PR industry.

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